Papa went to Abu Dubai for five days.
I’m flying to Texas NOW for the Grace Hopper Celebration.
The other day at Toastmasters Groningen, a few members of our club went over to Stenden Toastmasters in Leeuwarden and ‘captured’ the Explorer’s Cup.
This MASSIVE TROPHY is a Dutch only initiative to encourage members of clubs to visit other clubs and participate in the meetings. In order to ‘capture’ it, you have to take at least two members of your club to the club that currently has the cup and one member must be a speaker and one member must be an evaluator and the third can optionally have a role, but it isn’t necessary for the cup.
I fell asleep writing that paragraph.
I have absolutely no explanation why I’m over the moon that our club captured this thing, except that I thought it was a cool enough item that I put it in my presidential vision.
No, further back.
Since Sasha was born.
When my partner and I decided to have children, we decided to have two children. One at a time. We removed the birth control and were instantly pregnant. We have since found out that the chances of this happening are as low as five percent.
The original plan was have a child, when the child is eighteen months old, make another one.
It hasn’t worked out that way.
Yesterday was National Coming Out Day and while it’s not something I’m secretive about, because I am an apparent female married to a cis male, many people assume I am a straight woman.
I had conversations with my mother and aunt about sexuality when I was nine ish that they believed people are sexual and that sexuality isn’t binary, but more like on a sliding scale and that people are more heterosexual or more homosexual, but not completely one or the other.
That resonated with me so much that I immediately adopted the label bi-sexual.
Listened. To an amazing talk about eating disorders. Yes, it was so incredibly triggering. I went for a cry and a walk and a cuddle with a dog and then…
Spoke. It went well.
Escaped. Out of one of the Queen City Escape Room rooms and it was glorious.
The thing about travelling for work and going to conferences is that it puts me in a certain daily routine with a lot of quiet time in places and while I could ramble on and on about the whys and wherefores, the end result is that I’m able to write here more regularly.
This week I’m in Buffalo New York for Code Daze, a conference with the kickass tagline, “Reviving The Art Of Code & Building Community”. I had no idea that I knew one of the organizers when I applied with The ABCs of Being a RDO OoO ATC talk, but it’s a small small world.
I will admit that I’ve lived in Europe so long that I often forget what it’s like to be cat called in public. As opposed to a pub.
Where it’s acceptable?
No. Wrong. Still no bueno.
Back to the point.
I went to see Niagara Falls today. And walk to Canada. And eat poutine.
And I did.
But also an employee of Niagara Falls Maid of the Mist boat tour company told me to “Smile” as he passed me.
Can you feel it?
This is Sia’s latest video ‘The Greatest’ featuring Maddie Ziegler.